Phase 3 - Therapy is for losers

Yes, some may say that... take my ex.  "you're the one with the problems, you go".  Oh we did try to go, but he only made 3 attempts together and once by himself.  Therapy isn't for everyone.  Therapy has it's good and bad.  Good because you find out things about yourself you didn't know, and bad because you find out things about yourself you didn't want to know.  I'll admit, there are some things I could stand to change about myself, but with out compromising.  Ok, maybe a little compromising... I mean really, we can't have it all. But one or two sessions isn't going to do it.  I've been going off and on for 2 years now and it's gotten me farther along than I know I could have gone by myself.  I think of it as an investment in myself, my well being. So judge if you must, I have no shame that I have a therapist.  I can't keep worrying about what other people think, all I need to do is worry about myself because if I'm OK , my kids are OK.  That's all that really matters to me.